Frequently Asked Questions
What if I’ve never talked to anyone about my abuse before?
Then you have come to the right place and it’s great you have made the decision to contact me. Let me assure you that you are in a safe place where I can guarantee you will be heard and your truth will be acknowledged and I can also assure you, you will not be judged by me.
Am I going mad?
No, definitely not. When a person has been sexually abused they can experience different effects and these effects can make us feel distressed. As we work together you will become aware that the effects are normal reactions to the abnormal events you have experienced.
As always you are in control and if you choose we will work together to manage your thoughts and feelings and to move beyond the past experiences you encountered.
Will you push me to go to places that I’m not ready to go to?
Not unless you choose to go there. You are in charge and in control at all times – it is your choice always. I will simply support you when and if you choose to dive deeper and work on the deeper rooted issues.
Will you tell anyone what I will share with you?
No. Anything you tell me is 100% confidential and my code of ethics prevents me from sharing any information unless you intend to harm yourself, others or someone else has intentions of harming you.
I’ve tried other therapies and they didn’t work. Why do you think you will be able to help me?
Because I employ techniques and tools that work with the unconscious or subconscious mind. I can guarantee that this will have an influence on the conscious mind and enable you to change your behaviour. These tools and techniques are effective because they work on two levels – the emotional and mental – whereas other techniques such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) can merely work on one level.
Can anyone really recover from such a traumatic event?
Yes, you definitely can recover and move on from traumatic events and experiences. I have worked with many clients who have moved beyond past experiences to live much fuller and happier lives.
Can I pay by instalments?
Yes, I offer two instalments at £260 each, so you save £25 with the one-off payment.
What if it doesn’t work?
I will not make promises that I cannot honour, however, I can guarantee that the time you spend working with me will be the best investment in yourself you can make.
I will help you to unlock your potential so that you have the resources to achieve your ambitions, but how much we can do depends on your willingness and commitment to the process.
I am extremely confident in the results you will see, however, if after our first paid session together you feel it isn’t for you then I will refund your fee.
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